What would my life become?

What would my life look like in the following twenty years?
Just didnt realize that i have been 23 years old for a while. This should be the age that girls enjoyed the wonderfully life. But i have been thinking about what comes after my 25......

My family is pushing me to find a lovely partner who would love me till death who should be rich who should have kind-hearted and who should have outstanding appearance. It does not seem that that is me who need to find a partner but my family want a son-in-law.

I was from a small town in the south-east: fujian province. There are lots of rich people who were poor but earned a living by stealing into Americas, Janpan or some other foreign countries and managed to be worthy by restaranting mostly. They earned money in abroad and spent it at home. Their lives might be hard abroad but when they returned, they always look the best. Fujian province, especially in my hometown, is the least place that lack of rich people. They are people with brave heart and wise brain. They are the people who go out for the people stayed. They are the family who my parents want me to marry. But I dont.

Am I still to naiive?