Muffin.Z is a little bit clingy, like the furry sock that stick to somebody jeans aften taken out of the dryer. That is called in physics as "Static cling". Clingy is not a bad thing, but while combined with paranoid, wow, that is just annoying : taking others actions personally and end up hurting one's own feelings and still pretending to be "I am ok, it is ok for me, really." Wow, girl, there is yourself to thank.
Wiki defines Static cling as the tendency for light objects to stick (cling) to other objects due to static electricity which is caused by rubbing. Love is just like that. It stems from interpersonal exchanges."Rubbing" may bring pains and end up with chafe but if there is still any chance of bringing warm and heat then it is so necessary. Even without this chance, one should still keep trying, for as the singer Asin once said that :" I am not afraid of loving a wrong person but never be in love. " Most time women play the role as lighter objects in this process. I agree with Lin Yutang's opinion in My Country and My People, that "the second period of woman's beauty...best seen in a happy wife three months after her confinement."
The static cling phenomenon is especially noticable IN A LOW HUMIDITY environment. I remind myself a chinese idiom "gan1 chai2 lie4 huo3", literally meaning "a blazing fire and dry wood", metaphorically means man and woman(usu. improper relationship) get caught in strong passion. This word is first used by Cao Xueqin, a great chinese novelist in Qing dynasty, in his masterwork Dream of the Red Chamber. We always say love is the chemical reaction between people but now we find physics there too. I have heard a story that a German who settles in the southeast of china for the first time, opened the wardrobe and shokingly found there are many white fuzzy spot in the clothes. He was nearly freak out and called for help. This is a real story. Most chinese or southerners may be aware with what had happened. Yes, humidity! His clothes got mildewed in this rainy season! Humidity ruins more than clothes. It creates a foggy curtain between lovers. .... wrote many rubbish... id better stop now. but you know, humidity helps to conduct current!
ok , this is a simpler one:
dry, rub, spark,spark, spark! fire, blazing fire ! humidity! fire got controlled...ok...taming fire, warm and tender. human evolution and electricity on and woowwwwwwwww
i am crazy.......
to be continued...........
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